Are parents who are entering the period of pension should live forever and live at home with children and grandchildren to be a personal choice, or on the situations and circumstances that must be how to live and live together in the home of children or grandchildren forever, be a personal choice?
First, is to see physical and psychological condition of parents is the same as to see the baby, two to the same treatment and require special attention. In addition, also, some parents because of their medical condition that is very weak, the very need of assistance from all other people who actually have experience in caring for their parents. Conditions so that families can provide this special time for 24 hours continuously caring for a parent with the condition is so? and whether the family has the expertise to treat, if not then can occur in rear mal practice and caring parents. For the life of parents, in the end they submit a full treatment of parents submitted to the special care home (home residence), with the expectation of parents should be more secure than stay and live forever with the children or grandchildren.
Second, the last choice for parents who stay home and live in special care (home institution) because of financial reasons, because most parents have to have a pension, the financial revenue has not already fixed, so it is not longer able to pay for life for themselves themselves and their families. For families whose lives are on the financial level is low, the burden would be withdrawn, because economically they are still difficult to bear the cost burden of life's value was increasing, while their time has been spent be merged to find sustenance, and even they often have to work extra to get additional additional finance. So they are forced to parents willing to stay and live forever in a special care home (home Panti).
Fourth, because of solitude, for parents to have a pension, this period has made them feel lonely, so that their needs are often not met, while the family members have very little because they have to work hard to find living family members to support the others (such as school fees, health care, home building, and so forth). To cover the needs of some parents that were not met before, in the end they merelakan parents must live and live forever in the home care (home Panti), in the hope that they would not feel lonely because there they can meet with friends across the age, in a rather large amount.
Third, because of the social environment, in developing countries, in countries such as indonesia, many people still elders who lived and live in front of the store, banguan empty, empty land, stick to other people in the house occupied or vacant lands. Condition that this rejection often get people from different layers as they often cause negative things, and the fact that this condition is the responsibility of government and society, therefore, the government often cleaning activities and socialization, to ask them knowingly and voluntarily are willing to stay and live in a special care home (home Panti). Although there are many who do not realize but there are some who can accept the voluntary and conscious, for that can not receive on average they say that the way of life that is so they can get money every day, although a time they must suffer ill-weakly, must rains, frost, and so forth.
Fourth, because of solitude, for parents to have a pension, this period has made them feel lonely, so that their needs are often not met, while the family members have very little because they have to work hard to find living family members to support the others (such as school fees, health care, home building, and so forth). To cover the needs of some parents that were not met before, in the end they merelakan parents must live and live forever in the home care (home Panti), in the hope that they would not feel lonely because there they can meet with friends across the age, in a rather large amount.
In short, I submit fully to the family members to impose their choice that parents have to live with children or grandchildren from having to live and live forever in a special care home (home Panti), because all the many factors and reasons for the strong, as the last choice to live and live forever special care at home (home Panti).
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Demak, 23 Agustus 2009, Jam : 19.12 WIB
Diposting oleh = BRAM IRIANTO.
E-MAIL = iriantobram86@gmail.com
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